May 11, 2007: Pavlov's Dog
In psychology, as an undergraduate, I learned about Pavlov's dog. Pavlov was a psychologist who trained dogs to behave in a certain way by introducing the same command. It is not a surprise that we also have "learned behaviors," such as, when our bladders get full we run to the restroom. Now, what if we change our own behaviors so to change the behavior of another? What if we change the behavior of another human being by introducing a new command? Is it a form of manipulation? Or, can it be a form of self-care if the new command you evoke helps your own well-being? Or is it a combination of both? In any relationship doesn't this sound like a game people play so that they can either feel good about a certain situation? Or control a situation? Is this game moral? As a form of self-care and possibly subconsciously as a form of manipulation, in that I wanted this man to miss me, I did not call or text my last romantic relationship for the past week. In all hon